Category: Selfcare Tips

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Two Original Exercises to Unlock Infinite Value 🔓

“You need to let the little things that would ordinarily bore you suddenly thrill you.” -Andy Warhol That quote is important for one main reason: it instructs you to find value in the seemingly unimportant things in life. And two of those seemingly unimportant things we are going to focus on today are (1) your …

You Have No Identity … 🤔

“As long as you make an identity out of pain, you cannot become free of it.” – Eckhart Tolle I posted that quote to my Instagram yesterday. It received mixed reviews… You see, when you create an identity for yourself, you become one with it. So adopting an identity is [unfortunately] like creating a part …

So I Hear You Want Friends… Why Though? (3 reasons you need to stop caring about what others think)

So you want to be liked… I mean, who the heck doesn’t want friends who love them? I know I sure do 🙋‍♀️ … and I especially did between ages 14 to 21. But here’s the problem: you care way too much about being well-liked (and if you’re wondering, yes that statement counts towards social …

Everything You Do is Insignificant… 🤔

“Everything you do in life will be insignificant. But it is very important that you do it anyways.” – Mahatma Gandhi The first time I heard that quote, I honestly thought, “what the f*ck!?” How could anybody say that the things we do are insignificant? So I dismissed the quote…and judged Gandhi hard to be …

How to make this the #YearOfYou 😃

“Capitalize on your experiences to optimize your life.” Ella Sofia What do you think that quote means? What is the first thing that comes to mind when you read that quote? Are you thinking about money? Opportunity? Spiritual growth? Health and fitness? Well if that’s what you’re thinking about…don’t stop! Those things, plus all the …

You’re Missing Something Vital (Mental Health vs. Mental Illness)

“You’re fine”, says the inner tough-guy. …but maybe you’re not fine. Maybe you feel sad, lonely, anxious, and upset. But maybe that’s okay… Sad and Anxious are Normal Emotions Do you know what mental health is? I know the subject is heavily talked about nowadays, but do you fully comprehend what it means to have …

Why active rest is NOT just for fitness

“I need to rest… But I don’t understand resting will help me become more productive!” BE HONEST: Has the above statement ever crossed your mind? Better yet, has that statement ever crossed your mind, but you ignored it and continued to work? And final question: Did you burn-out after continuing to push yourself beyond your …

3 MORE Steps for Getting Rid of Shame (Part 2 of 2)

“I need counseling” “I’m having suicidal thoughts” “I tried to kill myself” Are any of those words familiar to you? Does the thought of saying “yes, they are familiar” make your stomach tie-up in a knot? That feeling of discomfort is called shame. And shame is the feeling of guilt or embarrassment after doing something …

4 Steps to Ending Your Shame (Part 1 of 2)

You’re ashamed… Of your past, your actions, and your decisions. You feel guilty or embarrassed about something you have done or a quality in your character. But why do you feel this way? I find the topic of shame to be quite an interesting one because I believe it is far more nuanced than you …

Why You Should 🛑Stop🛑 Concerning Yourself with Self-Esteem

Give me ’til the end of of this 5 minute read to get you thinking differently about self-esteem. Let’s start by looking at the definition of esteem: Esteem ➡️ v. regard highly or favourably; regard with respect or admiration Now hold that thought. And let’s look at the history of the word esteem: “Esteem” comes …